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Monday, April 12, 2010

OPENING DAY


Today is Opening Day for the Minnesota Twins Baseball Team. It is historic!

Historic: In the simple sense of the word, this day will be noted as a unique and exhilarating experience shared by the community that has been years in the making.

Today, I do not share within the 'completeness' of this story. I am not an avid baseball fan, nor is my family. We enjoy the game and take it for what it is. We love going to games, we love the excitement, but, ask me who plays third???

Today is HISTORIC in the Avenson family. For over 5 years (it has been longer, of course, but 5 years of complete involvement from my husband) we have seen history in the making - we have endured history in the making, we have agonized, suffered, been battered and enveloped history in the making.

My husband is busy. He always has been and I have always been one of those wives that can say in small company, "Oh, my husband works a lot."

4 or 5 years ago (I can not remember), John was made a VP with the Twins organization. He came home with question upon his face as he relayed the message from his counterpart. "He said to prepare myself to be even busier than I am now. How can I possibly add more to my plate?" As a naive couple, we laughed at this as we drank our wine...joking about what it might look like to be busier. I laugh now, because although we assumed john's plate was full, we were sorely mislead.

Today is HISTORIC i tell you! John's baby (and he shares this with so many other people) is alive and kicking. From the Golden Shovel ground breaking (I remember storming out of the reception afterwards because john --- just new to all this--- was 'working' the room and I was not accustomed at that time to sharing him), to the first bulldozer on the soil, to the yellow hardhat that says, "Avenson" on it,to the 2am beginning work days that he did on sooo many occasions, to the 11pm pulling into the driveway, to Target Field blue prints taking up space on our table, our bed, our couch, our bar, to countless ringings of the cell phone, to move in day to today.

Yes, it is a historic day. I do not refer to the Twins Baseball players, I refer to the man who, with complete support from his wife, has knowingly had to put his family life on hold for these past 5 years. The absence of daddy from the dinner table, the question of what state was daddy in today and what ballpark was he visiting, the "When will daddy ever be home?" questions from his children, the many, many, many activities and outings i have had to cancel due to his time at work.

I digress: John also heads up his children's Chess Club group and leads it weekly at 8am. When he does come home, he is downstairs playing legos with the kids. Our remodel is not yet complete, because there is a need with the kids that is in constant fill mode that he tries his best to fill. When he is home, he is a great father.

The season will still be busy - we know that. Our schedule revolves around the Twins baseball schedule. BUT, after the season is over or when the Twins are on the road, Daddy will be home.

TODAY IS HISTORIC!!! He made it. AND...so did we.
thanks for listening.

2 comments:

Tenniel said...

Enjoying this historic moment with you. Endurance is worth it from another wife who can answer the question in a similar way. I hope you can enjoy the game today and know that you all were appreciated even though you will not be mentioned in the news today. Among the many thankless workers who don't get the credit and never mind their wives. Thanks for all your sacrifice and support of your husband and kids without you guys today would be a very different day for many in Minnesota, even if they don't know it themselves.

Carla said...

Dear Avenson Family-

Thank you, thank you, thank you! As we sat in our padded green seats, gazing at a green field, feeling a perfect breeze blow in our faces we were thankful. It was the game Adam and I imagined in our minds but never really thought would come to fruition. Both of us have loved this team for about 33 years and to be in this stadium that celebrates not only the Twins of 2010 but also the Twins of our childhoods was an amazing experience. And we were grateful to be able to experience that with our kids. So, thanks. Really.